The Dr. Hyman Show How I Fixed My Corrupted Love Software with Lauren Zander
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Dec 14, 2022 Lauren Zander, co-founder of Handel Group and author of Maybe It’s You, dives into the complexities of love and self-discovery. She shares her transformative journey using coaching methodologies to heal from past heartbreaks. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding one’s love language and addressing personal traumas for future growth. Zander also emphasizes honesty in relationships and how personal integrity fosters genuine connections. Listeners gain insights into reconstructing their own 'love software' for healthier romance.
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Dr. Hyman's Love Journey
- Dr. Hyman shares his personal struggles with love, including three divorces, and his journey to fix his "corrupted love software."
- He attributes his difficulties to childhood trauma and learned patterns around love and caretaking.
Self-Discovery in Love
- Lauren Zander emphasizes the importance of self-discovery for healing in love, stating that talking about problems without focused concepts is insufficient.
- She highlights the need to examine past relationships, understanding their beginnings, endings, and lessons learned.
Dr. Hyman's Hauntings
- Lauren Zander discusses Dr. Hyman's "hauntings" related to love, shaped by family dynamics and a tendency to overgive.
- She notes that these hauntings influenced his partner choices and overall perception of love.
