Sex With Emily

Dating Apps Are Making You Hate Dating

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Dec 12, 2025
Jared Freed and Jordana Abraham, co-hosts of the You Up? podcast, dive into the chaotic world of modern dating. They share hilarious dating horror stories and discuss the pitfalls of saying yes to lackluster dates. The duo emphasizes listening to your gut and focusing on genuine excitement rather than obligation. They advocate for intentional dating practices, like limiting app usage and scheduling quick meet-ups. Plus, they tackle the complexities of casual relationships, navigating boundaries, and how to avoid the dreaded ‘ick’!
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ANECDOTE

Hera Vibrator Product Intro

  • Emily opens with a product mention describing the Hera rabbit vibrator's dual motors and G-spot stimulation.
  • She recommends it for solo or partnered play and offers a discount code.
ANECDOTE

Patio Chair Catastrophe

  • Jared recounts falling off a raised patio chair and knocking over a sandwich board and heat lamp.
  • The date laughed and he felt instantly unfuckable due to the vulnerability of the fall.
ADVICE

Only Go On Dates That Excite You

  • Avoid the “Sure, I’ll go” trap and only go on dates that genuinely excite you.
  • Limit app time and schedule swiping to create intentional, higher-quality dates.
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