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OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball and leading therapists

86 - DADDY ISSUES - Fantasy Bonding, Sex & The Alpha Male - The Father Wound Pt. 3

Apr 16, 2023
50:36
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Louise and Stephanie discuss daddy issues, toxic masculinity, fantasy bonding, and hypersexuality. They explore the allure of emotionally unavailable partners, being the other woman, and the appeal of the alpha male. They also touch on consent violations and the connection between sex and dopamine. The episode delves into the impact of father wounds on relationships, safety, and family desires.
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Quick takeaways

  • Fantasy bonding can lead to unhealthy relationship dynamics as individuals project unmet childhood needs onto romantic partners, setting themselves up for disappointment.
  • Daddy issues can manifest in hypersexualization, where individuals engage in sexual behaviors they may not desire in order to maintain a sense of control, validation, or prevent abandonment.

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Fantasy bonding and unrealistic expectations in dating

Fantasy bonding is when individuals connect with someone based on their potential, placing unrealistic expectations on them to fill the void left by their absent or inadequate father figure. This can lead to a rushed and intensified connection, disregarding whether the other person is on the same page or ready for a commitment. By projecting unmet childhood needs onto romantic partners, individuals risk setting themselves up for disappointment and perpetuating unhealthy relationship dynamics.

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