ADHD and marriage (Rachel and Jon’s story)

Jon Gardea has ADHD... and his wife Rachel doesn’t. She helped him spot the signs, though, including his hobby graveyard. Once Jon got diagnosed, it was clear that ADHD had been impacting their marriage over the years. Having an explanation created a positive mindset shift in their relationship, bringing them even closer. 

Rachel hosts a YouTube channel called Post-Mormon Parenting. In this episode, she and Jon also talk about how leaving the Mormon church contributed to Jon’s ADHD discovery. Listen to this heartfelt and honest discussion to get a behind-the-scenes look at ADHD and marriage.

To find a transcript for this episode and more resources, visit the episode page at Understood.

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Related resources

• Post-Mormon Parenting YouTube Channel
• The relationship between ADHD and executive functioning
• “Setting aside” my ADHD to be a better parent and husband

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