Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and bestselling author, dives into the complexities of love and relationships. She tackles burning questions like distinguishing love from attachment and building trust. Listeners learn to identify relationship red flags and narcissistic behaviors, and gain insights into overcoming breakups. Lori emphasizes the power of vulnerability, the importance of setting boundaries, and the challenges of unhealthy patterns. Her expert advice is a roadmap for healthier connections, making love work better for everyone.
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Childhood Narratives Shape Relationships
Childhood stories shape who we choose and how we act in relationships without us realizing it.
Understanding these stories helps change patterns and improve how we relate to others.
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Stop Projecting on First Dates
Avoid projecting fantasies onto a first date; focus instead on genuine curiosity about the person.
Find something likable about everyone by being authentically curious and open.
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Knowing "The One" Through Feeling
Instead of searching for "the one" ideal, focus on how it feels being with someone.
True compatibility depends more on comfort and experience than a checklist of traits.
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A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed
Lori Gottlieb
In 'Maybe You Should Talk to Someone,' Lori Gottlieb presents a dual narrative where she recounts her experiences as a psychotherapist working with various patients and as a patient herself, seeking therapy after a sudden and devastating breakup. The book introduces several patients, including a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with terminal cancer, a senior citizen contemplating ending her life, and a young woman struggling with alcoholism and poor relationship choices. Through these stories, Gottlieb sheds light on the therapeutic process, highlighting the complexities of human emotions, the importance of connection, and the universal quest for meaning and inner reconciliation. The book is known for its candid and humorous approach, offering insights into the human condition and the transformative power of therapy.
Lori Gottlieb, psychotherapist and bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, is helping us answer burning questions from our MBB audience like: “Am I in love or just attached?" “How do you know if you're in love?” “How do I build trust in a relationship?” From relationship red flags and how to communicate better with your partner to knowing when you’ve found "the one," Lori uncovers why we stay in toxic relationships, the truth about vulnerability, and how to fix your relationship after betrayal. Plus, get expert advice on setting boundaries, identifying red flags & narcissistic behavior, finding the right therapist, and how to move on after a break-up. Don’t miss her tips on keeping love alive and making relationships work. Plus, stay tuned for some surprising red flags from Mayim and Jonathan. This is the ultimate guide to unlocking your healthiest connections!
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