Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

1645: How to Set Boundaries With Your Parents by Tonya Lester

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Feb 9, 2023
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ANECDOTE

Helen's Family Abuse Story

  • Helen's older sister abused her secretly while their parents ignored signs of trouble.
  • Helen confronted her parents but they minimized her feelings and rejected boundaries with Rebecca.
INSIGHT

Ignoring Abuse Is Pressured

  • Women are often pressured to ignore abuse as a supposed moral high ground.
  • Families might guilt-trip members into pretending dysfunction doesn't exist to maintain appearances.
ADVICE

Set Firm Boundaries as Adult

  • Adults are not trapped in toxic relationships; you can set limits without permission.
  • Firmly communicate your comfort level and be prepared to end visits that don't respect your boundaries.
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