72. Not for Unspoken Expectations + How to Hack Your Mood Swings
May 9, 2024
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Jess and Caroline discuss tracking energy levels, navigating communication styles in relationships, and the importance of not letting labels define actions. They also touch on public bathroom etiquette and networking without flirting. The episode includes lighthearted banter and gratitude exchanges among hosts.
Recognize emotional patterns as part of self-understanding, approach personal tasks with structured productivity milestones, navigate communication differences in relationships
Deep dives
Understanding Emotional Cycles
The podcast delves into the experience of heightened emotional sensitivity and self-awareness during different times of the month. It discusses how individuals may feel more in touch with pain, frustration, or existential dread depending on their menstrual cycle phase. This emotional awareness is presented as a genuine feeling rather than merely attributed to hormonal fluctuations. The episode emphasizes recognizing and accepting these emotional patterns as part of a holistic self-understanding.
Productivity and Identity Comparison
The hosts share a productivity strategy involving categorizing tasks into 'minimum viable product', 'series B funding', and 'IPO' levels akin to a tech startup roadmap. This innovative approach frames personal tasks as corporate milestones, encouraging a structured and strategic approach to productivity. The discussion humorously explores the balance between treating personal responsibilities seriously and the tendency to over-brand and relate to oneself as a business entity.
Navigating Mental Health and Diagnoses
The conversation broadens to address mental health and diagnoses, highlighting the complexity of understanding and managing conditions like ADHD, anxiety, and bipolar disorder. It stresses the importance of self-awareness and accountability while acknowledging the impact of chemical and hormonal influences on emotions and behavior. The hosts share personal anecdotes on navigating relationships while accommodating individual differences in communication styles and approaches to mental health challenges.
Challenges in Communication and Expectations in Relationships
The podcast delves into the challenges faced in communication within relationships, highlighting instances where misunderstandings arise due to differing perspectives or assumptions. The speaker discusses scenarios where attempts to connect and understand each other's internal journeys lead to frustration and the need to navigate differing approaches to closeness. Strategies such as openly expressing expectations and adapting to varying communication styles are explored to foster better understanding and connection.
Navigating Boundaries and Social Dynamics in Flirtatious Interactions
Exploring the nuances of flirting and social interactions, the podcast delves into the complexities of setting and respecting boundaries, especially in the context of relationships. The conversation shifts towards the blurred lines between socializing and flirting, emphasizing the importance of understanding personal comfort levels and recognizing unhealthy dynamics. Insights on navigating flirtatious encounters, establishing boundaries, and promoting healthy communication in various social settings are provided to encourage self-awareness and respectful interactions.
This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone/ to get 10% off your first month.
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Jess and Caroline are back together. <3 They jump right into some hot topics with some hot takes: how tracking your energy can work to your benefit, how our feelings tell the truth no matter the trigger, navigating different communication styles in relationships, and the danger of letting labels take all the responsibility for our actions.
Plus a couple logistical conversations: which is the correct public bathroom stall to use? And how the F do you network without flirting? Of course, we won’t leave you without a complaint everyone can get behind—get ready for the Printer Episode, bbs.
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This episode was produced by none other than our prince, Abi Newhouse. DM her for your audio editing needs!
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Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA
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DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
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