Relationship experts Matt and Steve discuss the importance of consistently creating romantic moments in relationships. They explore the idea of learning communication and charisma skills to become more compelling. The hosts also engage in lighthearted banter and share funny email exchanges with listeners.
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Quick takeaways
Great relationships are built on consistent small efforts over time, not just grand gestures.
Romance is a habit that can be cultivated by paying attention to your partner's desires and intentionally creating meaningful experiences.
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The Importance of Small Efforts in Relationships
Great relationships are built on consistent small efforts over time. The big grand gestures are not necessary if you consistently show love, kindness, and consideration in your everyday interactions. It is about being aware of your partner's needs and creating moments that they will appreciate. By listening to what they want and enjoy, you can create meaningful experiences that strengthen the bond.
Romance as a Cultivable Habit
Romance is not something you are born with, but rather a habit that can be cultivated. It involves paying attention and listening to your partner's likes and desires, and then making a conscious decision to create moments that bring them joy. Romance is not always spontaneous, but a result of the intention to create more meaningful experiences in the relationship.
The Accumulation of Little Efforts and Overcoming Zombies
A great relationship is not about relying on big gestures or spikes of excitement. It is the accumulation of consistent small efforts over time that truly matter. Rekindling relationships after they have faded away often occurs because of a void in the person's own life. They may reach out to check if you are still there or to relive positive memories. It is important to have clear intentions and understand that practicing actions of romance does not make them insincere or manipulative, but rather shows a desire to improve and strengthen the connection.
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It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it.
Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn?