S34 E5: "The Perfection Trap: Embracing the Power of Good Enough" by Thomas Curran
Sep 29, 2023
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Tips for letting go of the pursuit of perfection and embracing 'good enough'; Understanding the difference between perfectionism and high standards; Impact of perfectionism on relationships; Escaping the weight of perfectionism
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Perfectionism stems from a need for validation and acceptance from others, while high standards are about setting expectations for oneself.
Perfectionism, despite its association with hard work and motivation, does not necessarily lead to success and often leads to burnout and self-sabotage.
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Differentiating Perfectionism and High Standards
Perfectionism is not the same as high standards. While high standards are about setting expectations for oneself, perfectionism stems from a need for validation and acceptance from others.
The Faces of Perfectionism
Perfectionism takes on different forms, including self-directed, socially imposed, and other directed. These dimensions contribute to a spectrum of perfectionism, with individuals varying in their levels of perfectionistic tendencies.
The Paradox of Perfectionism
Despite its association with hard work and motivation, perfectionism does not necessarily lead to success. Perfectionists often push themselves too hard, leading to burnout, and they are also prone to self-sabotage when faced with failure or criticism.
The pursuit of perfection can become a dangerous obsession that leads to burnout and depression — keeping us from achieving our goals. Today, Thomas Curran gives us tips for letting go so we can focus on what matters most.