Understanding Oppositionality in Adolescents

Defiant behaviors in tweens and teens with ADHD often stem from feeling unheard or unseen, leading to emotional outbursts and panic attacks. For example, one mother described her 11-year-old daughter experiencing anxiety attacks due to overwhelming emotions. Adolescents like Joaquim express frustration over feeling disrespected by their parents, emphasizing a desire for understanding rather than authoritarian commands. Recognizing these underlying feelings is crucial for parents aiming to build closer connections and effective communication with their resistant children.