
Changing Our Mental Maps
Jul 15, 2024
Norman Farb, a psychologist and neuroscientist, shares insights on how our brains use mental maps to navigate life. He discusses how these maps can sometimes trap us in negativity and emotional turmoil. The conversation dives into the importance of adapting our mental frameworks to improve interpersonal connections and emotional well-being. Farb also explores how depression disrupts our perception and emphasizes the need for sensory experiences to foster presence and meaningful relationships, especially in parenting.
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Misguided Tourists
- Two German tourists in Australia followed Google Maps' detour advice, becoming stuck on a dirt road.
- They abandoned their vehicle and hiked back, learning that inaccurate maps can be worse than none.
Linda's Depression
- Norman Farb's mother, Linda, faced depression after her life deviated from her parents' expectations of marriage and family.
- Farb's attempts to use his psychology knowledge to help her initially caused frustration and resentment for both.
Conflicting Maps
- Both Farb and his mother were attached to their own mental maps of how things should be.
- He realized his attempts to "fix" her were based on his own script and contributed to their strained relationship.