Sex With Emily Best Of: Kink & Casual Sex w/ Justin Lehmiller
Aug 20, 2024
Social psychologist Justin Lehmiller from the Kinsey Institute joins to explore the surge in sexual experimentation during the pandemic and its connection to heightened communication. He shares insights on enhancing casual sex for women, emphasizing pleasure. The discussion dives into the fluidity of sexuality, the dynamics of threesomes, and the necessity of transparency in sexual experiences. Lehmiller also highlights the Dutch approach to sex education, advocating for open conversations with kids about boundaries and consent.
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Pandemic Sparked Sexual Experimentation
- During the COVID pandemic, many people became more sexually experimental and kinkier than before.
- Sexual communication improved for about 40%, fostering better intimacy and exploration in relationships.
Threesomes Satisfy Emotional Needs
- Most people fantasize about being the center of attention in threesomes, showing deeper emotional needs.
- Sexual fantasies often fulfill psychological desires beyond the physical acts themselves.
Lesbian Sex Definitions Broader
- Lesbians have a broader, more inclusive definition of sex than heterosexuals.
- Embracing this expansive view allows for more intimacy and options as bodies and moods change over time.