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Tips from an ADHD Coach: Needing perfect conditions to get started

Feb 18, 2025
Struggling to get started because you crave perfect conditions? You're not alone! Discover how ADHD can trick us into waiting for ideal circumstances that may never arrive. Gain practical tips to break the cycle of perfectionism and embrace flexibility in your routines. Learn to jumpstart activities even when everything feels off. It's time to take action, imperfections and all!
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ANECDOTE

Leanne's Dog-Walking Challenges

  • Listener Leanne struggles to walk her dog consistently due to various obstacles.
  • These include childcare, weather, safety concerns, and boredom with routine.
INSIGHT

The Perfectionist Trap

  • ADHD brains get a dopamine boost from optimizing, leading to a preference for perfect solutions.
  • This, combined with all-or-nothing thinking and emotional dysregulation, hinders action.
ADVICE

Embrace Imperfection

  • Let go of the idea of a perfect solution; focus on good enough.
  • Accept that conditions will rarely be ideal, especially with ADHD's tendency for busy schedules.
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