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The Knowledge Project with Shane Parrish

#161 Jim Dethmer: The Pillars of Integrity

Mar 7, 2023
01:54:20
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Executive and leadership coach Jim Dethmer shares the Four Pillars of Integrity, including radical responsibility, willingness to feel emotions, self-acceptance, and the practice of appreciation. He explores the importance of rituals, revealing in relationships, recognizing and allowing emotions, and being impeccable with agreements. Dethmer emphasizes the power of ordinary moments and offers strategies for improving relationships and living purposefully.
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Quick takeaways

  • Taking radical responsibility and moving away from blaming and criticizing is the first pillar of integrity, allowing us to experience increased energy and aliveness.
  • Being revealed and not concealing our thoughts, feelings, and judgments is the second pillar of integrity, fostering deeper connections and intimacy in relationships.

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The Four Pillars of Integrity: Take Responsibility

The first pillar of integrity is taking radical responsibility and moving away from blaming and criticizing. By taking responsibility for our own experiences and being accountable for our own actions, we can experience a surge of energy and aliveness. Blaming others or external circumstances diminishes our vitality. We need to recognize that we are not the cause of other people's experiences and shift our focus to our own responses and choices.

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