Women of Impact "Men Find This IRRESISTIBLE!" 3 Ways to Seduce, Captivate & Leave Him Wanting More | Adam Lane Smith PT 1
Nov 12, 2025
Join couples therapist Adam Lane Smith as he dissect the complexities of intimacy and emotional connection. With over 15 years of experience, Adam explains why men and women bond differently during sex through hormonal differences. He shares three practical techniques to enhance bonding, like the playful 'Drunk Octopus' method. Adam also discusses the importance of safety in relationships, identifying manipulative behaviors, and how to foster genuine connection. This insightful dialogue offers essential tools for anyone navigating the modern dating landscape.
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Different Biochemistry Of Bonding
- Sexual bonding differs by sex: women bond through intimacy and oxytocin while men often experience dopamine 'hamburger' responses.
- Men can move from hamburger to genuine intimacy when vasopressin/oxytocin bonding is activated in relationship contexts.
Don't Have Sex Before Commitment
- Avoid having sex before commitment because it can stop compatibility testing and create 'love drunk' settling.
- Do wait for committed relationship signals so sex doesn't short-circuit important questions.
Make Sex A Shared, Immersive Experience
- During sex, invite immersive mutuality: let him help you 'get there' and communicate honestly instead of faking orgasms.
- Try the 'drunk octopus' approach: touch his face, back, and use limbs to stimulate oxytocin for both of you.