My mum is a narcissist - Talking Narcissism part 2
Dec 12, 2023
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Monique, who grew up with a narcissistic parent, shares her experience of growing up with a manipulative mother and cutting off ties. Nova Gibson, an expert in narcissistic abuse, provides insight on navigating complex relationships with narcissistic parents. The podcast explores the impact on siblings, dealing with a narcissistic parent with a terminal illness, and setting boundaries with toxic parents.
Growing up with a narcissistic parent can deeply affect a child's self-esteem and emotional well-being.
Establishing boundaries and prioritizing the well-being of children are crucial when dealing with a narcissistic parent.
Deep dives
Insight 1: Dealing with a narcissistic parent in a romantic relationship differs from dealing with a narcissistic parent as a co-parent or child
Dealing with a narcissistic parent in a romantic relationship is commonly discussed, but dealing with a narcissistic parent as a co-parent or child raises different challenges and questions.
Insight 2: The impact of a narcissistic parent on a child's upbringing
Growing up with a narcissistic parent can have a profound impact on a child's self-confidence, feelings of worthiness, and sense of stability. The parent's inconsistent behavior, emotional abuse, and lack of empathy can create anxiety and long-lasting emotional scars.
Insight 3: The role of boundaries and consequences in dealing with a narcissistic parent
Establishing and maintaining boundaries is crucial when dealing with a narcissistic parent. However, setting boundaries may be met with resistance, manipulation, or guilt-tripping. It often becomes necessary to enforce consequences or, in more extreme cases, to cut off contact to protect one's well-being.
Insight 4: Co-parenting with a narcissistic ex-partner requires careful navigation
When co-parenting with a narcissistic ex-partner, it is essential to prioritize the well-being of the children. Setting clear boundaries, minimizing contact, seeking counseling for the children, and involving third-party support can help mitigate the negative effects of the narcissistic parent's behavior.
Hey Lifers! Today's episode is part 2 of diving into narcissism. You can listen to part 1 on narcissists in romantic relationships here!
Now we are taking a deep dive on having a narcissistic parent and how to navigate co-parenting with a narcissist. Firstly we are joined by Monique. Monique and her siblings grew up with a mum who was the most noticeable person in the room. She was generous, she was incredibly beautiful and she was also a narcissist. We speak to her about how her and her siblings felt about themselves growing up, her mum's manipulative behaviour & subsequent affair and how she went about actually cutting her mum off for good. We often hear the phrase 'blood is thicker than water," but for Monique, her life has been a lot happier since severing that relationship.
Then we are joined by Nova Gibson. Nova is an expert on narcissistic abuse, the founder of Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service, and the author of "Fake Love."
Nova speaks with clients every day who experience narcissistic parents and she has an incredible insight into how to navigate these complex relationships.