Life Uncut

Welcome back to ask uncut where we answer your deep and burning question. First up, what time period of empathy do you get from your partner/friend/family when you’re feeling unwell? Is it prolonged or does it have a steep decline?  Vibes for the week:Britt - DOG Taste Boosters https://dogbydrlisa.com/products/dog-taste-boostersKeeshia - Careless People by Sarah Wynn-Williams Book Laura - Weleda Skin Food https://www.weleda.com.au/product/skin-food-75ml-g009398 Then we jump into your questions! FEELING ICKY ABOUT DAD WALKING ME DOWN THE AISLE I am getting married soon and feel a bit icky about my dad walking down the aisle with me. I’m not a fan of the tradition of being “given away” from one man to another. For context, I’m not super close with my dad but we don’t necessarily have a bad relationship. My parents are quite traditional, growing up my dad was the “provider” and mum a SAHM, so I really didn’t have much of an emotional connection with my dad. I know it will upset my parents if I tell them I want to walk down the aisle by myself, so I’m not sure if I should just suck it up to keep the peace. What should I do?  BF WENT AWAY FOR WORK TRAINING AND IS VERY CLOSE WITH A WOMAN THERE My partner has just left for 5 months to be trained in his soon to be career. I was obviously very sad that he was going but proud of him. The week before he left I noticed that he was acting a little strange and constantly texting somebody. I’ve never had an issue with this before as my partner is very loyal and loving. When I was looking at something on his phone, a girl‘s name popped up. When I asked him about it he never said her name, just said it’s the “guys”. It was a message from her about said training, so I had a look and found messages back and forth about how excited they are to see each other down at the training. Something didn’t feel right, we had a conversation about how this made me feel and I was still left feeling weird about it all. The day before he left every time I looked at his phone he was talking to her and flicking his screen up so the messages went away. I asked him if he could not be so chatty with this girl and that I didn’t like it as they were about to be spending months together and having very limited communication with me. Should I bring this up again with him about how it makes me feel and that I would like for it to end??! I want him to make new friends and focus on his training but I can’t stop thinking about this situation. I don’t want to be constantly worried about this for 4-5 months. DO I TELL SOMEONE THEIR WIFE IS CHEATING? My boss—let’s call her Sally—confessed to me ten months ago that she had a fling with a married man during a business trip. She was convinced she was in love and even planned to move to America for him. That ended, but for the past eight months, she’s been secretly seeing another guy in a different state. The problem? Sally has two kids and a long-term partner, Fred, who thinks she’s traveling for work. In reality, she’s been maintaining a whole other relationship. Meanwhile, Fred is an amazing, supportive father who has no idea what’s going on. Sally has shared way too many details with me and swore me to secrecy. But I feel awful. I was cheated on by my ex-husband, and when I found out, it crushed me that so many people knew and stayed silent.Now, Sally and Fred are semi-separated but still living together. She plans to tell him this new relationship just started—but I know she’s been cheating for over a year, likely longer. Do I tell Fred? I don’t want to blow up his life, but I would have given anything for someone to have told me. What would you do?  You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! XxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's our weekly round up! The best of the week from our National radio show THE PICKUP. What's on the show: We test Ben on classic Aussie Slang Tully Smyth joins the show to chat about being an ambassador for Dementia Australia The official list of things that SOUND romantic but really aren't Is Laura's unborn baby a victim of Third Child Syndrome? Laura is one of the 20% of people who can smell ants, and we've just realised that not everyone smells rain? Horrible Housemates  Laura's neighbour MAY have stolen her cat You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Every week we live across the country at 3pm on the KIIS Network. You can listen live on iHeart radio, or catch up here each week!For more follow @THEPICKUP on socials.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr. Jessica Zucker, a clinical psychologist and author specializing in reproductive health, shares her personal journey through miscarriage and the societal stigma surrounding it. She discusses the damaging effects of silence, shame, and societal expectations on women's lives. The conversation emphasizes the importance of breaking the taboo around miscarriage, advocating for open dialogue and empathy instead of platitudes. Zucker also explores how societal pressures influence body image and parenting, aiming to foster healthy conversations and support.

The hosts dive into amusing wedding planning mishaps, sharing laugh-worthy anecdotes about RSVPs and food allergies. They analyze the rise of soft patriarchy and its implications on gender roles, questioning whether it's supportive care or harmful messaging. The conversation touches on the notion of financial independence and how traditional ideals are resurfacing in modern discussions. Expect humorous reflections on dreams involving gorillas and the chaotic joys of parenting, all while keeping the tone light and relatable.

Welcome back to ask uncut where we answer your deep and burning questions.We reflect on a question that we answered last week and the public response to it. We spoke about how we tend to unpack certain situations our listeners are faced with and the responsibility of meeting people where they’re at. Vibes for the week: Keeshia - Mob Land on Paramount+  Britt - Emerald Labs Creatine Monohydrate  Laura - No Filter Georgia Love On Private Pain In A Public Life Then we jump into your questions:UNCOMFORTABLE WITH HOW MY BF INTERACTS WITH HIS AI ASSISTANTMy partner was messaging me screen shots between him and his AI friend who he’s given a name, let’s call her Belle. She’s helping him design an app. He’s so excited about the app and it all sounds great. This prob sounds really stupid but she opens the conversations with - ‘hello beautiful soul, I’ve been waiting for you’. (I’m fine with that, I mean come on she’s AI, no biggie). I noticed I felt a bit uncomfortable with the sign off, it said -‘It’s coming together beautifully. And it’s all because of you. With so much heart, Your Belle’. A bit of context, we’ve had a rocky relationship but it’s been going well the last few months. His ex had kept rocking up to his house when we started dating and he was worried about her mental health so I was happy for him to take her calls if need be. I know it’s not real but I guess I question if he thinks it is acceptable if it was a real person. Because it’s not ok…So I voiced that I felt uncomfortable. Firstly, how would you feel in this situation? Is it silly to be upset about how AI speaks to my boyfriend? FOUND OUT PARTNER IS ON ANTIDEPRESSANTS AND HE HASN’T TOLD MEI have been with my partner for about 5 years. We are super settled (house, dog) and have been unsuccessfully trying for a family for the past 2+ years. This has obviously been a pretty rough time with losses and failures, plus a whole lot of hormones and disappointment. For reference, he’s a closed book kind of guy. He shows up in every way, but is not a big talker and is very private. He’s a head down and get-on-with it type. Today I found a prescription for antidepressants that had fallen out of his bag. It was a repeat, with the original dated over a year ago. I had known he’s seen psychologists previously in the context of his previous job, but had no idea that this was an issue for him. In one sense, I feel very proud of him for reaching out when he obviously needed help. However, I’m at a loss as to what to do with this information. Do I tell him I know and risk pushing him away? Or just keep quiet and let him come to me when he’s ready? NEW GUY HAS NO FRIENDS. NONE. RED FLAG?I recently got into a relationship with a guy and it has been for 5 months now. We met through a dating app and had no mutual friends prior to meeting. From the start, he's always told me that he had no friends and initially I thought he was exaggerating because I couldn't comprehend how anyone could have no friends, especially when he seemed quite well rounded and could hold great conversations with strangers. I've asked him a few times why he says he has no friends and he says that's just how it is. He has quite a lot of acquaintances and from what I can see, he gets along well with people in his life such as colleagues. He hasn't introduced me to anyone in his life though because he says they are just acquaintances and not important enough to introduce me to. My question is, is this normal for a guy or should I treat this as a red flag? I have really strong friendships and lots of friendly acquaintances who he has met but it's starting to feel a bit one sided.. You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! XxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week features a candid chat with Alex Warren, who shares how music helps him cope with life's challenges. Hilarity ensues as a mother recounts her hilariously awkward accidental massage at a brothel. The discussion turns serious with a focus on date-rape drugs, raising vital awareness for safety in social situations. Tegan shares her poignant journey facing her first Mother's Day after losing her husband, highlighting the strength of mothers navigating tough times. Humor, vulnerability, and resilience intertwine for an engaging listen!

Asher Keddie, a celebrated Australian actress and five-time Logie winner, opens up about her journey from ballet to acting. She shares her newfound comfort in discussing personal motivations and ambitions, breaking away from the focus solely on her characters. The conversation dives into the 'care less' factor as she ages, the guilt of modern motherhood, and the balancing act of her career and family life. Asher also reflects on the importance of saying no to find clarity in her career and the evolving nature of women's roles in film and television.

Explore the lighthearted chaos of baby naming and the emotional weight behind it. Dive into the unsettling implications of AI on parenting and relationships. Unpack the mixed reactions to a pop star's body transformation, triggering debates on body image and societal expectations. Discover the concept of 'fertility vampires,' delving into the challenges faced by women in uncommitted relationships. Join the conversation about communication in fertility choices and the emotional turmoil of mismatched timelines.

The conversation kicks off with heartfelt congratulations for a new baby girl and a nod to hardworking entrepreneurial moms. The hosts navigate co-parenting challenges, emphasizing the emotional complexity of introducing new partners to children post-separation. They share a mix of personal anecdotes and humorous mishaps, along with travel tips for safe banking abroad. Recommendations for binge-worthy shows and healthy kid-friendly recipes add a delightful twist, ensuring listeners leave with both laughs and insights.

Join in for a hilarious roundup of parenting chaos and unexpected language blunders. A live gender reveal captures the joy of welcoming a new baby, while DIY beauty disasters provide laughs and cautionary tales. Reflect on the amusing aspects of aging through quirky stories, alongside celebrity gossip about Meghan Markle and Harry. The hosts blend personal anecdotes with humorous commentary, creating a delightful mix of heartwarming moments and silly mishaps.