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#62 Stefano

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Oct 16, 2025
In this touching narrative, Debbie shares the poignant story of her mother Anita, who embraced a two-year-old boy named Stefano during a 1959 flight to America. The bond they formed left a lasting impact on Anita, leading Debbie on a heartfelt quest to find him decades later. Their journey reveals the challenges of uncovering Stefano's life, touching on themes of love, loss, and the complexities of adoption. As they connect, Stephen reflects on his struggles with identity and addiction, highlighting the bittersweet nature of their reunion.
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ANECDOTE

Woman Falls For A Baby On One Flight

  • Anita, an Italian refugee, babysat a two-year-old named Stefano on her 1959 flight to New York and fell deeply in love with him.
  • Upon arrival, the adoption agency took Stefano from her arms without goodbye, and Anita wondered about him for the rest of her life.
ANECDOTE

Digital Sleuth Finds An Adopted Boy

  • A friend named Lindsay used only Stefano's age and flight date to find his immigration record and the adoptive father's obituary.
  • From those records she deduced Stefano's American name: Stephen.
INSIGHT

Small Records Have Big Social Impact

  • A single old DUI flag on people-search sites made friends worry about introducing Stephen to Anita.
  • A minor criminal record can drastically change how others approach reconnecting with someone.
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