View cleaning as self-care and facilitator of desired life, not burden.
Five Things Tidying Method simplifies cleaning tasks, reduces mental blocks.
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Reframing Chores as Self-Care
Viewing household chores as moral obligations can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-judgment. Therapist Casey Davis suggests that cleaning should be seen as a means to facilitate the life you desire rather than a burden. Her Five Things Tidying Method simplifies cleaning by categorizing tasks like trash, dishes, laundry, items with places, and those without. By understanding that your space should serve you, cleaning becomes a form of self-kindness.
The Five Things Tidying Method
The Five Things Tidying Method categorizes cleaning tasks into five main groups: trash, dishes, laundry, items with places, and items without places. Starting with trash and progressing through each category simplifies the cleaning process and reduces mental blocks. Casey Davis emphasizes that breaking tasks into manageable steps and focusing on functional results can make cleaning less overwhelming.
Care Tasks as Kindness to Yourself
Considering care tasks as acts of kindness to your future self reframes cleaning as a proactive, self-caring practice. Prioritizing tasks that benefit your well-being, such as keeping a clean living space, shifts the perspective from punishment to self-care. The approach encourages individuals to approach cleaning tasks with self-compassion, recognizing that it's about personal well-being rather than meeting external standards.
Too overwhelmed to tidy up? KC Davis, author of the book "How to Keep House While Drowning," suggests a clean-up strategy that homes in on trash and clutter.