Meditative Story

Mud, sweat, and tears, by Shani Tran

May 6, 2025
Shani Tran, a therapist and content creator passionate about healthy relationships, shares her heartfelt journey navigating a tough obstacle course with her father. She humorously reflects on their complex bond, revealing lessons about accepting loved ones as they are, not as we wish them to be. As she recounts pivotal moments, including her graduation and a chaotic birthday trip, Shani emphasizes the importance of owning one’s happiness and the power of presence in our relationships. Join her for insights on resilience and emotional independence.
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Tough Mudder Race Experience

  • Shani Tran and her dad run a Tough Mudder obstacle race together, testing her strength and their teamwork.
  • Her dad stays by her side, supporting her through every challenge, symbolizing a rebuilding relationship.
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Teen Visit Highlights Absence

  • At 15, Shani visits her dad hoping for connection but is left feeling like a low priority.
  • Her dad drops her off at his grandmother's house without much explanation, mirroring his own childhood experience.
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Stranger Helps On Ramp

  • During the race, Shani struggles on a muddy ramp but is helped by a stranger when her dad is not immediately there.
  • This moment shows unexpected teamwork and reminders of community support beyond family.
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