Almost 30 Ep. 152 - Savage Love: An Honest Look at Monogamy, Sex, & LGBTQ Rights with Dan Savage
Sep 27, 2018
In this lively conversation, bestselling author and LGBTQ activist Dan Savage candidly explores the complexities of monogamy and sexuality. He tackles societal pressures surrounding relationships, sharing insights on why we often overemphasize monogamy. Dan discusses the Hump Film Festival, promoting safe sexual expression and humor in intimacy. He reflects on the importance of communication about desires, especially in LGBTQ relationships, and shares personal experiences that challenge traditional notions of love and fidelity.
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Coming Out and Acceptance
- Dan Savage's mother initially reacted poorly to his coming out, expressing homophobic sentiments.
- However, a priest's intervention, who revealed his own homosexuality, helped Savage's mother become accepting.
Communication in Relationships
- Women are often burdened by the expectation that men should intuitively understand their desires without verbal communication.
- This stems from societal pressures, including slut-shaming, which inhibits women from expressing sexual needs.
Monogamy's Unrealistic Expectations
- Monogamy is often unrealistically viewed as requiring perfection, where a single instance of infidelity invalidates a long-term relationship.
- This unrealistic expectation undermines relationships by creating anxiety, doubt, and unnecessary conflict.
