Her Discussions by Dr Faye ED & Surgery Survivor: I hated my body until I learned THIS
Sep 24, 2025
In this enlightening conversation, Nelly London, a creator and advocate, shares her journey through body image struggles and recovery from eating disorders and surgeries. She reveals how forgiveness and a mindset shift transformed her life. Nelly discusses the importance of embracing one's choices for true freedom and how her healing journey reshaped her relationship with her body. She also highlights her decision to share personal stories, including her abortion experience, to provide support and education, all while advocating for authenticity in the influencer space.
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Puberty, Early Shame And The Decision To Operate
- Nelly developed very large breasts from puberty which caused pain, unwanted attention, and self-loathing.
- At 18–19 her mother suggested a breast reduction and they booked surgery quickly without Nellie fully understanding the decision.
Surgery Complications And A Decade Of Repairs
- After her first breast reduction many stitches failed and wounds opened, causing infection and prolonged healing.
- She spent a decade and multiple corrective surgeries rebuilding her breasts with a reconstruction specialist.
How Fearful Puberty Education Harms Girls
- A terrifying, shame-heavy PSHE puberty lesson triggered Nelly to stop eating at age 11 to avoid puberty.
- Teaching puberty with fear can create lifelong body anxiety and disordered eating.
