077: Pro Domme and Professional Cuddler Bee on Therapeutic Kink, Daddy Dom Little Girl (DDLG) Dynamics, Yoni Gazing and Squirting Upside Down feat. Physics

Jun 27, 2024

Professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee from Temple in Chicago discusses yoni gazing, DDLG dynamics, therapeutic kink, and shibari. Highlights include overcoming vulva shame, the importance of touch, and switchy domme power dynamics. Also covers the healing power of professional cuddling, boundaries in professional domination, and creating connections through shared experiences in the kink community.

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Intro

00:00 • 2min

Empowering Women Through Femme-Centric Community Spaces

01:53 • 7min

Embracing Self-Love Through Yoni Gazing and Body Acceptance

09:15 • 9min

Exploring Affirmations, Transformative Experiences, and Podcast Support

18:45 • 3min

The Healing Power of Professional Cuddling

21:22 • 9min

Therapeutic Kink and Professional Domination

30:50 • 11min

Exploring Switch Dynamics and Trust in Submissive Roles

42:15 • 2min

Exploring Boundaries and Rope Tying in Professional Domination

44:42 • 6min

Improvise, Entertain, and Connect

51:05 • 10min

In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee, who is also the co-founder of Temple in Chicago, a shibari and aerial performer, and the partner of previous repeat guest Physics (Episode 45: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Episode 46: BDSM, DDLG and Shibari). In this wide-ranging conversation, the four of them touch on everything from DDLG dynamics to overcoming vulva shame through yoni gazing.

Temple: The feminine energy vs the masculine energy, creating a space for women to feel vulnerable enough to have those transformational experiences. Events at Temple from yoni gazing to massage to Littles Parties. (1:26)

Overcoming vulnerabilities about our vulvas by yoni gazing. Admiring, acknowledging and affirming your vulva. Porn star pussy vs real life. Uneven labia. (11:09)

Professional cuddling: platonic touch therapy. The importance of touch. What does a cuddling session entail? How can a professional cuddler maintain safety? (21:08)

Therapeutic Kink as a mode of healing and helping others work through trauma through professional domming. Do all clients have something to work through? (31:08)

DDLG (Daddy Dom Little Girl) Dynamics: how being a “little” allows Bee to be in her dominant energy during the day. (39:11)

Switchy Domme: Power dynamics and differentiating between personal pleasure practices and experiences vs. work experiences. (43:16)

Shibari: what does it do for the people practicing it? Showmanship with suspension combined with aerial skills and squirting. How to prep for squirting: regular hydration! (46:09)

Upside down squirting: wow factors and showmanship in erotic shibari performance. (50:47)

Links:

Find Bee on Fetlife: LilHoneyBeeBuzz
Find Physics on Fetlife: Physics

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The Temple

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