In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee, who is also the co-founder of Temple in Chicago, a shibari and aerial performer, and the partner of previous repeat guest Physics (Episode 45: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Episode 46: BDSM, DDLG and Shibari). In this wide-ranging conversation, the four of them touch on everything from DDLG dynamics to overcoming vulva shame through yoni gazing.
Temple: The feminine energy vs the masculine energy, creating a space for women to feel vulnerable enough to have those transformational experiences. Events at Temple from yoni gazing to massage to Littles Parties. (1:26)
Overcoming vulnerabilities about our vulvas by yoni gazing. Admiring, acknowledging and affirming your vulva. Porn star pussy vs real life. Uneven labia. (11:09)
Professional cuddling: platonic touch therapy. The importance of touch. What does a cuddling session entail? How can a professional cuddler maintain safety? (21:08)
Therapeutic Kink as a mode of healing and helping others work through trauma through professional domming. Do all clients have something to work through? (31:08)
DDLG (Daddy Dom Little Girl) Dynamics: how being a “little” allows Bee to be in her dominant energy during the day. (39:11)
Switchy Domme: Power dynamics and differentiating between personal pleasure practices and experiences vs. work experiences. (43:16)
Shibari: what does it do for the people practicing it? Showmanship with suspension combined with aerial skills and squirting. How to prep for squirting: regular hydration! (46:09)
Upside down squirting: wow factors and showmanship in erotic shibari performance. (50:47)
Links:
Find Bee on Fetlife: LilHoneyBeeBuzz
Find Physics on Fetlife: Physics
Websites:
CuddlesByBee.com
The Temple
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