The Gifted Experience: Reframing Emotional Intensity
Aug 8, 2024
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Emily Kircher-Morris, an advocate for gifted students' emotional needs, joins Christine Fonseca, a licensed educational psychologist and author, to discuss the emotional intensity experienced by gifted individuals. They delve into the unique processing of emotions among the gifted and the concept of overexcitabilities. Emphasizing the importance of accepting these traits, they argue against pathologizing giftedness and advocate for creating supportive learning environments. The conversation highlights the value of embracing discomfort on the journey to personal growth.
Emotional intensity in gifted students is a natural outcome of their heightened sensitivity and unique brain wiring, necessitating understanding rather than pathologizing.
Supporting gifted individuals involves creating optimal learning environments that embrace their uniqueness and help navigate intense emotions authentically.
Deep dives
Understanding Emotional Intensity in Gifted Students
Gifted students often experience a unique emotional intensity that sets them apart from their peers. This intensity stems from their heightened awareness and sensitivity to the world, leading to a richer and more nuanced experience of emotions and sensations. As discussed, understanding this phenomenon requires recognizing that emotional intensity is not a disorder but a characteristic of being gifted. Supporting gifted individuals involves validating their feelings and helping them embrace their passionate nature without pathologizing their experiences.
Navigating the Threshold of Support
Determining when a gifted student's emotional intensity transitions into dysfunction requires careful assessment. It's essential to address the giftedness first and evaluate their coping mechanisms and emotional responses. If a student's perfectionism or distress becomes overwhelming and affects their daily life, additional support may be necessary. This approach not only respects their giftedness but also ensures that they receive the appropriate interventions when their emotional experiences hinder their functioning.
The Impact of Current Research on Giftedness
Recent advancements in research have significantly enriched our understanding of gifted individuals, particularly regarding emotional and social development. The exploration of twice-exceptionality and over-excitabilities has provided deeper insights into the unique challenges faced by gifted students. There is now better recognition of the complexities involved, such as how learning disabilities can co-occur with giftedness, affecting a child's self-perception. Practitioners are encouraged to stay informed about emerging research to provide tailored support that aligns with the latest findings.
De-pathologizing Giftedness
The conversation around giftedness often intersects with the neurodiversity movement, focusing on de-pathologizing labels and understanding the intrinsic value of diverse cognitive profiles. Gifted individuals should not be confined to limiting labels that suggest dysfunction; rather, their unique traits should be recognized as strengths that contribute to their perspectives. By fostering acceptance of their unique experiences, educators and parents can help gifted students thrive without being burdened by societal misconceptions. Encouraging an authentic acceptance of oneself can lead to healthier coping mechanisms and decision-making processes.
On episode 236, Emily Kircher-Morris and Christine Fonseca discuss emotional intensity in gifted students. They explore the reasons behind this intensity, and how it relates to the giftedness experience. They touch on the concept of overexcitabilities and how they manifest in gifted individuals. Also, they emphasize the importance of understanding and accepting the unique characteristics of gifted children rather than pathologizing them, and of embracing discomfort as part of the journey.
Takeaways
Gifted students often experience emotional intensity due to their unique brain wiring and the rich and intense experience of the world.
It is important to avoid pathologizing giftedness and instead focus on creating optimal learning environments and providing appropriate support for gifted individuals.
Living authentically and embracing discomfort can help gifted individuals navigate their intense emotions and make conscious decisions that align with their values and goals.
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Christine Fonseca is a licensed educational psychologist, critically acclaimed author, and a nationally recognized speaker on topics related to educational psychology, mental health, giftedness, and using storytelling to heal past wounds. Using her experience consulting and coaching educators and parents, Christine brings her expertise to Psychology Today, authoring the parenting blog Parenting for A New Generation. She has written self-help articles for Parents.com, Johnson & Johnson, and Justine Magazine and appeared on podcasts, radio, and television. Her critically acclaimed titles include Emotional Intensity in Gifted Students, and Letting Go: A Girl’s Guide to Breaking Free From Stress and Anxiety.