The OptimalWork Podcast [Rebroadcast] How to Develop Lasting Motivation
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Apr 21, 2025 Dive into the intriguing world of motivation as the speakers explore Alfie Kohn’s challenge to traditional views on rewards and praise. They discuss how intrinsic motivation can be nurtured over time rather than stifled. The conversation highlights the delicate balance between encouraging children and fostering genuine self-esteem, while examining the roles of discipline and constructive criticism. Navigating the complexities of child development theories, they advocate for a supportive approach that empowers growth and personal mastery.
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Positive Reinforcement Fuels Motivation
- Positive reinforcement creates virtuous cycles by making right actions increasingly enjoyable.
- This reinforcement enhances mastery and meaning, explaining intrinsic motivation.
Kohn's Contradictory Stance on Control
- Alfie Kohn critiques rewards as controlling but uses judgmental standards himself.
- Reward and punishment dynamics exist even in his own approach to influencing behavior.
Balance Praise and Critique Wisely
- Avoid overusing praise and punishment as motivators to prevent dependence.
- Be generous in acknowledging genuine progress to encourage growth and confidence.
