The Psychology of your 20s 198. The psychology of ‘mommy issues’ and mother wounds
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May 24, 2024 Exploring the concept of mother wounds, the discussion delves into how unprocessed trauma from maternal relationships affects identity and emotional well-being. It highlights the competitive dynamics among women fostered by societal pressures, emphasizing the need for solidarity. Healing strategies are shared, focusing on personal growth and relationships. The importance of self-care is also touched upon, encouraging listeners to prioritize their health and well-being while confronting these deep-rooted issues.
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Prenatal Influence
- A mother's experiences, even prenatal ones, significantly impact a child's development.
- Studies reveal that stress, trauma, and even memories can be passed down epigenetically, influencing gene expression and behavior.
Mother vs. Father Wounds
- Mother wounds differ from father wounds, being more emotive and concerning self-esteem, worth, boundaries, and codependency.
- Father wounds typically relate to authority, independence, and approval, while mother wounds often involve people-pleasing and fear of rejection.
Inherited Body Image
- Jemma shares a friend's poignant statement: "I hate my body because my mother hated hers."
- This illustrates how mothers' negative body image can be inherited by their children, impacting their self-esteem.
