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Perfectionism and Its Rise
- Perfectionism means constant sensitivity to failure signals pushing us to prove ourselves continuously.
- Social perfectionism, which involves fearing others' judgments, has risen 30% and links to mental health issues.
The Lie of the Perfect Self
- The idea of a perfect self is a cultural lie infused with youth obsession and individualism.
- We are genetically limited and cannot be anything we want, despite early life messages telling us otherwise.
Guide Kids Toward Status Groups
- Encourage kids by rewarding their effort and pushing them toward their genuine passions.
- Help children find a group where they can feel connected and gain status to empower their happiness.