Sex and Psychology Podcast

Episode 419: How To Set Boundaries In Relationships

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Aug 1, 2025
KC Davis, a licensed therapist and bestselling author, dives deep into the often misunderstood world of boundaries in relationships. She debunks common myths, explaining why boundaries are about responsibility, not control. The conversation reveals how people-pleasing is rooted in discomfort and offers insights on navigating under-functioning dynamics. KC emphasizes the importance of honest communication and pragmatic approaches to boundary-setting, vital for all types of relationships. Tune in for actionable advice to enhance your connections!
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INSIGHT

Boundaries Define Responsibility Lines

  • Boundaries are an internal understanding of where your responsibilities end and another's begin.
  • They are about self-understanding, not controlling someone else's behavior.
ADVICE

Ask Before It Becomes A Crisis

  • Talk about porn and masturbation early with curiosity instead of confrontation.
  • Ask why it matters to each partner and seek mutually acceptable solutions, not control.
INSIGHT

Control Is The Opposite Of Boundaries

  • The opposite of boundaries is control and trying to change others.
  • Repeating demands often reflects hope you'll find the magic formula to make someone change.
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