Life Kit
The science of finding a partner
Feb 14, 2023
Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist at Hinge and author of *How to Not Die Alone*, discusses the pitfalls of relying solely on initial chemistry in dating. She emphasizes the importance of understanding dating personalities—romanticizers, maximizers, and hesitators—to navigate relationship challenges. Ury introduces the 'three-date rule' to encourage deeper emotional connections and dispel first-date jitters. With actionable strategies, she inspires listeners to rethink their dating habits and focus on fostering meaningful relationships.
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Quick takeaways
- Focus on building gradual connections based on reliability, kindness, and loyalty instead of seeking immediate sparks.
- To improve dating experiences, implement pre-date rituals, design engaging dates, and prioritize genuine curiosity over checklist-driven interactions.
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