Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

220. “I carry the baby, the bills, and the stress”

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Aug 5, 2025
Monica and Michael face the storms of new parenthood and financial stress, with Monica feeling overwhelmed as she shoulders most responsibilities. Michael grapples with shame over past financial missteps, including an eviction. After a significant salary increase, he struggles to communicate effectively, leaving Monica questioning their partnership. The discussion unveils their emotional disconnect and the need for transparency as they navigate financial planning together, highlighting the importance of honest communication to rebuild trust.
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INSIGHT

Swiss Army Knife Mentality Limits Connection

  • Michael's 'Swiss army knife' mentality causes him to focus on work but not on big-picture communication.
  • This mindset leads to missed celebrations and a lack of emotional connection with Monica.
ANECDOTE

Airport Food Spending Led To Eviction

  • Michael spent $50 a day on airport food while working long shifts.
  • This expense contributed to his eviction, which he initially hid from Monica.
ADVICE

Celebrate Financial Wins Authentically

  • When sharing financial wins, include a smile and express what it means to you.
  • This builds connection and helps your partner celebrate with you.
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