We Can Do Hard Things 23. Lightning Love & Not Calming Down
Sep 2, 2021
Explore the intriguing idea of 'summer rain' love versus 'lightning love' as the ideal relationship. Discover the delicate balance of when to speak up or remain silent, especially in high-stakes meetings. Hear about the concept of 'silent solidarity' and its implications on gender dynamics in professional settings. Gain insights on effectively communicating with highly sensitive children and the importance of validating their emotions. These discussions blend humor with essential life lessons on love and resilience.
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Amanda's Anniversary
- Glennon reminded Amanda of her 10-year wedding anniversary during a work meeting.
- Amanda and her husband John prefer a low-key celebration over a fancy dinner.
Summer Rain Love
- Amanda challenges the notion of "lightning strike" love as superior, suggesting it can be destructive.
- She advocates for "summer rain" love, emphasizing comfort and security.
Intimacy and Vulnerability
- Glennon analyzes a scene from Ted Lasso, arguing that true intimacy requires vulnerability and being seen.
- She contrasts this with choosing safety to avoid potential annihilation.