Working Hard with Grace Beverley How to Build the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted With Matthew Hussey
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Aug 18, 2025 
Matthew Hussey, a leading dating coach with over 4 million YouTube subscribers, shares his expertise on building meaningful relationships. He discusses the importance of self-awareness and setting personal boundaries while navigating modern dating. Listeners will find valuable insights on recognizing red flags, fostering effective communication, and breaking the cycle of unhealthy patterns. Matthew’s personal journey and transformative strategies make for an engaging conversation filled with practical advice for enhancing romantic lives.
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Familiarity Trumps Happiness
- We gravitate to familiar relationship patterns even if they make us unhappy because unfamiliar safety feels risky.
- Chaotic relationships can feel thrilling and keep us engaged by never allowing true safety.
Scarcity Illusion In Attraction
- Scarcity increases perceived value so people who are hard to get feel more desirable.
- That perceived value often has nothing to do with the person's actual worth or character.
Remember What Really Hurt You
- Stay connected to the pain from past relationships and list what was missing last time.
- Prioritise those missing needs over momentary chemistry when choosing who to invest in.
