Maggie Smith's "You Can Make This Place Beautiful" offers a poignant exploration of divorce and its aftermath. The book delves into the emotional complexities of separation, examining themes of grief, loss, and self-discovery. Smith's honest and vulnerable portrayal of her experiences resonates with readers who have faced similar challenges. The book explores the process of healing and rebuilding one's life after a significant loss. It offers a message of hope and resilience, reminding readers that even in the midst of pain, beauty and growth are possible.
Ruthie Ackerman's "The Mother Code" is a deeply personal memoir exploring her journey to motherhood. The book delves into the complexities of her own desires and the societal pressures she faced. Ackerman recounts her experiences with infertility treatments, navigating a divorce, and ultimately finding love and building a family. The book explores themes of self-discovery, resilience, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional life. It offers a raw and honest portrayal of the emotional rollercoaster of becoming a mother.
Liz Lenz's "Vindication of the Rights of Pregnant Women" examines the societal pressures and expectations placed upon pregnant women. The book explores how these pressures can impact a woman's autonomy and decision-making process. Lenz challenges traditional views of motherhood and pregnancy, advocating for women's right to make choices that align with their individual needs and desires. The book provides a critical analysis of the medicalization of pregnancy and the limitations placed on women's bodily autonomy. It ultimately empowers women to prioritize their own well-being and make informed choices about their reproductive health.
The Personal MBA distills the most valuable business lessons into simple, memorable mental models that can be applied to real-world challenges. The book covers a wide array of topics including entrepreneurship, marketing, sales, negotiation, operations, productivity, and systems design. It is designed to provide a self-directed crash course in business, helping readers understand and analyze the fundamental elements that make every successful business function. The book emphasizes the importance of creating value, effective marketing, and delivering on promises, and it includes a recommended reading list to further enhance business knowledge.
In 'Wild', Cheryl Strayed recounts her journey hiking the Pacific Crest Trail alone, a trek that spans from the Mojave Desert to Cascade Locks, Oregon. The book chronicles her physical and emotional struggles as she confronts her past, including the death of her mother, the breakdown of her family, and the end of her marriage. Through her experiences with nature, encounters with various people, and reflections on her life, Strayed finds a path to healing and self-discovery. The memoir is known for its vivid descriptions, honest portrayal of grief and personal growth, and the author's unique narrative style that interweaves past and present events.
Atomic Habits by James Clear provides a practical and scientifically-backed guide to forming good habits and breaking bad ones. The book introduces the Four Laws of Behavior Change: make it obvious, make it attractive, make it easy, and make it satisfying. It also emphasizes the importance of small, incremental changes (atomic habits) that compound over time to produce significant results. Clear discusses techniques such as habit stacking, optimizing the environment to support desired habits, and focusing on continuous improvement rather than goal fixation. The book is filled with actionable strategies, real-life examples, and stories from various fields, making it a valuable resource for anyone seeking to improve their habits and achieve personal growth[2][4][5].
This week, I talk with Ruthie Ackerman—a talented author, journalist, and writing teacher who has turned her own journey into a blueprint for helping others find their voice. Ruthie’s work has appeared in The New York Times, Modern Love, and many other renowned outlets, but her true passion lies in empowering others to discover and write their own stories. Through her workshops, one-on-one coaching, and book incubators, Ruthie helps writers connect with their experiences, heal from the past, and find deeper meaning in their lives. We explore Ruthie’s journey—from traveling the world in her 20s, to pivoting into journalism, to teaching creative nonfiction and memoir to students around the globe. We also dive into the deeply personal moments that shaped her path, including her journey to motherhood. Ruthie’s insights on storytelling, healing, and personal growth are inspiring, and I hope our conversation encourages you to reflect on your own story and its potential to create meaning and connection. Let’s get to it!
In this episode:
- (00:00) - Intro
- (02:48) - How Ruthie ended up in Malawi
- (10:31) - The path to journalism
- (13:19) - Brooklyn dreams
- (18:38) - Reporting from Liberia and Lebanon
- (28:18) - The Forbes experience
- (32:05) - Starting Write Your Life
- (36:12) - How Ruthie teaches writing
- (47:51) - The importance of memoir
- (53:25) - Balancing personal and professional life
- (01:03:55) - The journey to motherhood
- (01:09:28) - Dealing with changing desires
- (01:16:14) - Understanding self-silencing and emotional repression
- (01:24:02) - The reality of fertility treatments
- (01:28:24) - Dating after divorce
- (01:33:17) - Finding love and facing heartbreak
- (01:44:19) - Meeting Rob
- (01:48:37) - Reflections on the journey and personal growth
- (01:52:06) - Ruthie's most beautiful future
- (01:55:09) - Who Ruthie is becoming
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