The Female Dating Strategy Lundy Bancroft Takes The Queens Inside The Minds of Angry & Controlling Men (Part 1)
Jan 12, 2022
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Abuse Is Driven By Thinking, Not Feelings
- Lundy Bancroft argues abuse stems less from emotions and more from an abuser's attitudes and thinking patterns.
- Understanding his thinking unlocks why emotional soothing rarely changes abusive behavior.
Cultural Training Creates Entitlement
- Bancroft highlights cultural training: society teaches men entitlement to women's time, bodies, and obedience.
- Abusive behavior reflects learned values about male rights, not merely individual trauma.
Don't Reduce Abuse To 'Narcissism'
- Bancroft warns against labeling abusers as 'narcissists' because it individualizes the problem.
- That shift obscures societal responsibility and frames abuse as private pathology instead of oppression.