Ben Newman, one of the best coaches globally, discusses the importance of setting standards and living by them every day. Topics include resilience, finding your 'burn' for motivation, fueling aspirations for success, avoiding the pitfalls of comparison, personalized grieving processes, and the impact of life lessons.
Maintaining a neutral mindset aids in managing emotions and achieving goals effectively.
Discovering a personal 'burn' fuels sustained success and commitment to goals.
Balancing aggressive patience and long obedience is crucial for achieving long-term success and goals.
Deep dives
Importance of Staying Neutral in Life
Maintaining a neutral mindset, especially in challenging moments, can lead to better outcomes. Staying neutral helps in managing emotions during both success and setbacks. By not getting too high or too low, individuals can maintain focus, resilience, and continue pursuing their goals effectively. This approach was highlighted in a story where athletes applied staying neutral advice and achieved success.
The Significance of Finding One's Burn and Purpose
Discovering a personal 'burn,' a deep motivation that fuels actions, is essential for sustained success. Ben shared a touching story about his mother's strength and passing, which ignited his own burn for personal and professional growth. Having a burn empowers individuals to stay committed to their goals and overcome challenges. It was emphasized that the highest performers in various fields possess an inner fire that propels them forward. This deep drive is crucial for achieving long-term success.
The Concept of Aggressive Patience and Long Obedience
Balancing aggressive patience and long obedience is crucial for achieving long-term goals and success. Aggressive patience entails taking persistent action while also waiting for results to manifest. Long obedience involves staying committed to one's path and goals over an extended period of time. The story of sending a compelling street sign to Nick Saban exemplifies the dedication and belief in the process required for success. This approach emphasizes consistency, resilience, and unwavering commitment to personal and professional endeavors.
Overcoming Adversity and Persistence in Building Relationships
The podcast episode discusses the importance of overcoming adversity and staying persistent in building relationships. The speaker shares a personal anecdote about sending a book to a prominent figure, Coach Saban, and eventually establishing a meaningful connection with him through consistent efforts over several years. This example emphasizes the significance of resilience, patience, and dedication in nurturing relationships for long-term success.
Dealing with Grief and Embracing Personal Growth
The episode delves into the speaker's experience with grief, particularly the loss of his mother at a young age, and how he transformed that pain into strength and inspiration. He highlights the importance of allowing oneself to grieve in their unique way and finding a personal path towards healing and growth. By sharing his own journey of overcoming loss and leveraging it as a source of motivation, the speaker encourages listeners to embrace their grief as a catalyst for personal development and resilience.
Today I have a special guest/dear friend on the podcast. Ben Newman is one of the best/top coaches in the world, and after today's episode you're going to see why that's true. Ben show us today the importance of having a standard and living by that standard everyday! Press play and listen to this legendary conversation with the one and only BEN NEWMAN.
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