The Science of Happiness

How Gentle Touch Builds Connection

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Aug 28, 2025
Theresa Alexander, a dedicated pre-K teacher from Arlington with nearly 20 years of experience and a new mother, shares her insights on the power of gentle touch. She discusses how simple practices like self-hugs and soothing touches can calm the nervous system for both caregivers and children. Theresa emphasizes the emotional benefits of affectionate touch in education, detailing personal experiences that illustrate how physical connection enhances relationships. Listeners learn practical techniques to foster calm and connection in their daily lives.
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ANECDOTE

Teacher's Real-Day Stress And Quick Self-Soothing

  • Theresa Alexander described a chaotic preschool day with extra kids, sensory overload, and no nap time that left her needing quiet.
  • She used deep breaths and rubbing her belly on break to calm herself and get through the day.
ADVICE

Teach A Short Belly-And-Heart Regulation Routine

  • Teach children a simple belly-and-heart touch routine paired with deep breaths to help them self-regulate.
  • Encourage a final self-hug and a friendly phrase like “How can I be a friend to myself today?”
ADVICE

Use 20-Second Self-Compassionate Touch

  • Place a hand on your belly or heart for 20 seconds and repeat self-compassionate phrases like “It's OK to make mistakes.”
  • Use this quick practice during stressful moments (even while driving) to lower anxiety.
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