On Purpose with Jay Shetty Jays Must Listens: You’re Approaching Dating Wrong! (Use THIS Blueprint to Attract the RIGHT Person) Ft. Vanessa Van Edwards & Jillian Turecki
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Nov 5, 2025 
In this enlightening discussion, body language expert Vanessa Van Edwards reveals how confidence and subtle flirtation cues significantly impact attraction. Love coach Jillian Turecki encourages listeners to slow down in dating, emphasizing resilience to rejection and intentional partner selection. Relationship coach Sadia Khan helps identify toxic patterns, shedding light on why we often choose emotionally unavailable partners. Finally, psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb advocates for emotional honesty and setting boundaries to foster healthier, more genuine connections.
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Signal Amplification Bias Explained
- People vastly overestimate how obvious their flirting is; it took 29 subtle signals in 10 minutes for interest to be noticed.
- Availability and clear body-language beat objective attractiveness for getting approached.
Availability Trumps Looks
- Attractive people get approached less if they don't signal availability.
- Signaling availability can make anyone more attractive regardless of looks.
Use Clear, Low-Pressure Signals
- Use clear availability signals: repeated glances, small smiles, self-touch, and a casual "hey."
- Speak with the lower end of your natural voice to convey relaxation and confidence quickly.