

Why do I say “like” so much?
25 snips Sep 25, 2024
Sociolinguist Valerie Fridland and speech coach Rhonda Khan join the discussion on the frequent use of 'like' in modern language. They explore its historical roots, from 18th-century slang to contemporary usage, especially among young women. The conversation emphasizes the societal judgments tied to this seemingly trivial word and encourages embracing authentic communication styles. They also share tips for minimizing filler words without losing enthusiasm, promoting effective and personalized expression in both casual and professional settings.
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Third Grader's Critique
- Allison, a college junior, was told by a third grader that she said "like" too much.
- This feedback made her question her speech habits and how others perceive her.
Like's Utility
- "Like" serves important purposes in communication and is multifunctional.
- People adopt words because they are useful, not pointless.
Quotative Like
- Quotative "like" replaces verbs like "say" and conveys subjectivity, not verbatim quotes.
- It helps listeners understand the speaker's perspective and interpretation of events.