The rules of romance have changed, and many young men feel they can't keep up. We get some tips from a Texas men's relationship coach.This episode was produced by Hady Mawajdeh and Carla Javier, edited by Miranda Kennedy, fact checked by Melissa Hirsch, mixed by Patrick Boyd, and hosted by Jonquilyn Hill.Shutterstock image by fstop Images. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Carla Javier, a supervising producer at Explain It To Me, teams up with Justin Oberman, one of TSA's first employees, to unravel the ongoing saga of the REAL ID Act. They delve into the cultural implications and logistical hurdles of its delayed implementation, exploring how airport security has evolved post-9/11. The conversation touches on public resistance regarding civil liberties, the influence of the COVID-19 pandemic, and what the future might hold as the new enforcement deadline approaches.

Tune in for exciting updates as the hosts announce a new Sunday schedule for content! They dive into the importance of women's representation in media and how listeners can engage by submitting questions. Don't miss out on insightful discussions and the chance to have your queries explored!

Jade Wu, a behavioral sleep specialist, dives into the perplexing world of sleep challenges. She discusses the critical link between sleep and overall health, revealing how our unique sleep patterns influence our daily lives. Jade also explores the unsettling phenomenon of sleep paralysis, offering insights into its benign nature. Additionally, she highlights the benefits of napping and provides valuable tips for night owls seeking to align their routines with more conventional schedules, ultimately emphasizing the importance of quality sleep for wellness.

Anna North, a senior correspondent at Vox specializing in reproductive health, joins the discussion on the realities of egg freezing. She challenges the notion that it’s a simple solution for women balancing career and family. The conversation dives into the emotional and financial implications, personal stories of heartbreak, and the complex truths behind the procedure's effectiveness. Listeners hear about the industry's growth and the importance of making informed choices in navigating fertility and family planning.

Diving into the gaming industry's perplexing layoffs despite profits, the discussion unpacks factors like AI and consumer trends. They also tackle food safety concerns surrounding mayonnaise amid recent recalls and explore the challenges of different sleep patterns, including sleep paralysis. The conversation expands to personal relationships and societal definitions, inviting listener engagement. Additionally, they weigh in on curiosities about car headlights and the collectible card market, offering tips on building adult friendships through social apps.

Sigal Samuel, a senior reporter at Vox and author of the ethical advice column 'Your Mileage May Vary', dives into modern dilemmas. She tackles questions like whether flying is ethical in the context of climate change and our responsibilities. Sigal discusses the impact of social media on personal ethics and the struggle between self-care and community care. Her insights on value pluralism help listeners navigate complex moral terrain, encouraging a healthier dialogue about sustainability and personal values.

David Sklansky, a Stanford Law School professor and author of Criminal Justice in Divided America, dives into the often misunderstood topic of citizen's arrests. He clarifies who has the legal authority to detain someone and the historical context behind these actions. The discussion highlights the ethical responsibilities of individuals and the risks of vigilantism, especially in light of recent societal tensions. Listeners gain insights into the balance between community involvement and professional law enforcement, reframing notions of justice and personal safety.

Keren Landman, a Vox senior reporter and former doctor, dives into the debate on antibacterial versus regular soap. They explore the effectiveness of different soaps, revealing that regular soap is often just as effective for everyday use. Keren discusses FDA regulations and concerns over antibacterial ingredients. The conversation also touches on broader cultural issues, including women's reproductive rights and shifts in societal attitudes towards health. It's an eye-opening discussion that blends hygiene with a look at contemporary social topics.

Michael Kaye, head of brand for OKCupid, reveals intriguing dating app data while Devyn Simone, Tinder's dating expert and matchmaker, provides essential tips for navigating the dating scene. They analyze cuffing season—its cultural significance and the psychological motivation to find intimacy as temperatures drop. The discussion highlights relationship trends, seasonal dating spikes, and the unique behaviors of users during this time. Expect playful anecdotes and eye-opening insights about modern romance!