Why We Have Tip-of-the-Tongue Moments & How to Make Better Conversation

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Jul 28, 2025

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Jefferson Fisher

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Anne Cleary

Anne Cleary, a psychology professor at Colorado State University, dives into the intriguing phenomenon of 'tip-of-the-tongue' moments, unpacking the cognitive mysteries behind our inability to recall certain words. Alongside her, Jefferson Fisher, a lawyer and expert in verbal communication, shares practical strategies to enhance conversation skills. They discuss age’s impact on memory retrieval, the importance of context, and tips for effective dialogue, revealing how empathy and understanding can improve our everyday interactions.

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Nuts Increase Longevity

Eating just 15 grams of nuts daily reduces mortality from major diseases significantly.
Peanut butter does not provide these mortality benefits unlike whole nuts and peanuts.

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Understanding Tip-of-the-Tongue

Tip-of-the-tongue moments are when you know a word but can’t recall it immediately.
This phenomenon feels different from simply forgetting or not knowing something.

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Names Trigger Tip-of-the-Tongue

Tip-of-the-tongue states occur mostly with low-frequency words and proper names.
Proper names are the most common words people struggle to retrieve during these moments.

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“It’s right on the tip of my tongue!” We have all had that experience of not being able to recall a word but feel like it is just out of reach. It’s different than simply not being able to recall something because you have forgotten it. This phenomenon is something people actually study and since it is something that has happened to you, I am sure you will find this fascinating. My guest is Anne Cleary, a professor of psychology at Colorado State University. Her research examines odd memory phenomena like déjà vu and these tip of the tongue experiences. She is author of a book called Tip of the Tongue States: Retrieval, Metacognition, and Experience (https://amzn.to/4eLbuST)

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