Life Kit: Parenting Should you let your kid quit something?
Oct 24, 2024
Beck Harlan, a Life Kit visuals editor and parent, consults with experts Crystal Lewis, a child psychologist, and Vanessa Lapointe, a parenting coach. They dive into the tricky world of whether kids should quit activities they no longer enjoy. The conversation reveals how emotional resilience varies among children, using the dandelion and orchid metaphor. Insights on fostering enjoyment over pressure in kids’ activities emerge, emphasizing the importance of communication and flexibility in supporting children's emotional needs.
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Beck's Quitting History
- Beck Harlan, a self-proclaimed quitter, quit many activities as a child.
- Now a parent, she's facing the dilemma of whether to let her son quit swim lessons.
Reflect On Your Intentions
- Examine your own intentions before reacting to your child's desire to quit.
- Consider your values and what you want to teach your child.
Developmental Considerations
- Younger children may not grasp the connection between practice and skill mastery.
- Prioritize play and relationships in activities for younger kids over skill development.