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2082: Are You the Jealous Type? by Dr. Dylan Selterman of Luvze

Feb 26, 2024

Explore the complexities of jealousy in relationships, how attachment styles influence reactions, and strategies to foster security and trust. Learn about the correlation between personal security, trust, and jealousy triggers, with insights on growth and improvement in attachment styles.

10:40

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Dylan Selterman

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Quick takeaways

Jealousy can stem from attachment styles, leading to misinterpretations and conflicts in relationships.

Understanding the roots of jealousy can aid in fostering trust and security within relationships.

Deep dives

Jealousy Can Cause Pain and Conflict

Jealousy can inflict pain and lead to conflict in relationships when individuals perceive threats. This emotion may stem from concerns about rivals perceived as more desirable, potentially sparking intense conflicts between partners.

Introduction

5min

Exploring the Influence of Secure Attachment on Jealousy in Relationships

2min

Exploring Jealousy, Trust, and Personal Growth in Relationships

3min

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Episode 2082:

Dr. Dylan Selterman dives into the complex world of jealousy in relationships, exploring how attachment styles influence our reactions to perceived threats. His research sheds light on the mechanisms behind jealousy, offering insights that can help individuals understand and manage their feelings more effectively. By understanding the roots of jealousy, listeners can gain strategies for fostering security and trust within their relationships.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.luvze.com/are-you-the-jealous-type/

Quotes to ponder:

"Jealousy can be both a poison and a teacher, depending on how we respond to its lessons."

"Insecure attachment styles are like glasses that color our view of relationships, often tinting them with the hue of jealousy."

"Understanding the roots of our jealousy can lead us to cultivate a garden of trust and security in our relationships."

Episode references:

Attachment Theory: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_theory

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