Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda Episode 158: How to talk to your s/o about your past
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Apr 18, 2022 AI Snips
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Delay Deep Disclosure Until Commitment
- Wait to fully disclose deep sexual or traumatic history until the relationship is moving toward marriage.
- Share everything a committed partner wants to know and what shapes your view of intimacy.
Hosts Share Their Marriage Dynamic
- Speaker 0 describes his long sexual past and how his wife chose either to forgive or to want full details.
- Their different needs created an ongoing dynamic of insecurity and grace in the marriage.
Light Brings Healing And Purpose
- Bringing abuse or hidden sin into the light removes the enemy's power and invites healing.
- True freedom shows when you use your story to help others, not just feel personally released.