I Can't Marry Her, but That's Spiritually Immature

Sometimes people think they're really spiritual mature. And and it mes it, it manifests itself as spiritual immaturity. If god doesn't hold any one's sins against them, why would i ever put myself in a position to be the judge of some one's past? Right? We we judge sins in the church in the sense that we go to peop who are sinning and say, stop bit. But we don't judge some one'spast by holding their sins against them. It can be an opportunity for you, as the person who has saved themselves, to grow in your own spiritual maturity.