
Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda
We’re all becoming something. What are you becoming? It's our goal for you to intentionally become the person God has called you to be. We'll release an episode each week with answers to real questions that college students and young adults are asking us. Listen in as Jonathan Pokluda, Nate Hilgenkamp, and Kathy Davidson help you navigate life in your 20's and 30's!
Latest episodes

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May 12, 2025 • 28min
Episode 318: Top Questions From Young Adults (from BeSo Live)
In a lively live recording, key questions from young adults are tackled with humor and insight. Listeners learn how to honor authority while navigating generational wisdom. The discussion dives into the complexities of friendships, emphasizing the importance of setting spiritual boundaries. Attention turns to the impact of porn addiction on relationships, highlighting healing through community support. Finally, vital conversations around Christian marriage are explored, focusing on attraction and the depth of intimacy beyond the physical.

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May 5, 2025 • 29min
Episode 317: Would Jesus Flip Tables Today? (from BeSo Live)
What would Jesus think about today's church practices? This lively discussion explores the commercialization of faith and whether modern worship might prompt Jesus to flip some tables. A heartfelt celebration of love also leads to deeper reflections on marriage and faith. Listeners are urged to examine their own motives in a consumer-driven environment, emphasizing the need for genuine connections and authentic discipleship. It’s a thought-provoking look at spirituality and community in the modern world.

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Apr 28, 2025 • 28min
Episode 316: Taking Care of Your Body (from BeSo Live)
How important is our physical health? And when can it become an obsession about appearance? We talk about all of that and more in this first recording from BeSo Live 2025!

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Apr 21, 2025 • 35min
Episode 315: The Fight for Marriage (feat. Gabe and Rebekah Lyons)
Since there is no perfect person, there is no perfect marriage. There are plenty of ways for division to arise in a marriage, but fighting for unity is possible. On this episode we talk to Gabe and Rebekah Lyons about their new book “The Fight for Us”. Pick it up here: https://a.co/d/fJhSeD5

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Apr 14, 2025 • 37min
Episode 314: Experiencing Jesus (feat. John Eldredge)
John Eldredge, an author and counselor renowned for his insights on Christian spirituality, joins to discuss how to truly experience Jesus. He emphasizes that a stale religion can transform into a vibrant relationship with the divine. Listeners learn about engaging with God beyond traditional quiet times, cultivating intimate communion, and understanding spiritual warfare. Eldredge shares practical tips for encountering Jesus daily and highlights the importance of rest and restoration amidst life's busyness.

Apr 7, 2025 • 33min
Episode 313: I Want their Approval!
Exploring the exhausting quest for approval, this discussion tackles the pitfalls of people-pleasing. With humor, they delve into the complexities of dating dynamics and the lure of playing hard to get. The conversation shifts to the balance between genuine service and the pressure to meet expectations, emphasizing the importance of meaningful relationships. Highlighting the contrast between divine and human approval, listeners are encouraged to prioritize faithfulness and embrace their inherent worth over societal validation.

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Mar 31, 2025 • 44min
Episode 312: What If I’m Not Attracted?
What do you do when you're interested in someone but not physically attracted? The hosts delve into the importance of attraction beyond the surface, examining the impact of societal norms on beauty and how personal insecurities affect relationships. They share humorous suburban anecdotes while discussing deeper qualities that foster attraction. Additionally, they tackle overcoming past unhealthy habits and the importance of character over looks, encouraging listeners to reflect on their emotional connections for healthier partnerships.

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Mar 24, 2025 • 32min
Episode 311: Have I Missed God’s calling?
Exploring the complexities of finding one's divine calling, the hosts share personal stories about life's decisions and the interplay of faith. They humorously discuss the allure of social media fame versus true self-worth, while also diving into the relatable chaos of everyday life. Through lighthearted banter and meaningful insights, they encourage listeners to embrace their unique paths and trust God's guidance, all while juggling the challenges that come with fulfilling one's purpose.

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Mar 17, 2025 • 32min
Episode 310: Are Catholics Christians?
This discussion kicks off with a quirky take on clothing styles and nostalgic memories. There’s a humorous debate about Walmart versus Target, leading into reflections on personal relationships. The hosts dive into the intriguing world of Catholicism and Christianity, tackling complex theological distinctions about grace, sin, and purgatory. They analyze the unique traditions of each faith, especially around Scripture interpretation and practices like confession. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of respecting diverse denominations while focusing on the core message of salvation.

Mar 10, 2025 • 32min
Episode 309: Does God Always Hear My Prayers?
Is God always listening and responding when I’m praying? The answer may surprise you! If you want to know what happens when you pray, this episode is for you!