
Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda
We’re all becoming something. What are you becoming? It's our goal for you to intentionally become the person God has called you to be. We'll release an episode each week with answers to real questions that college students and young adults are asking us. Listen in as Jonathan Pokluda, Nate Hilgenkamp, and Kathy Davidson help you navigate life in your 20's and 30's!
Latest episodes

Jun 2, 2025 • 31min
Episode 321: How Much Money Can I Keep? (from BeSo Live)
How do we align what Jesus said do with our finances versus what is actually practical? Do we need to sell everything? Give 10%? How can we be faithful with our finances?

May 26, 2025 • 27min
Episode 320: How to Love Someone Identifying as LGBTQ (from BeSo Live)
The hosts share humorous anecdotes, including a light-hearted mishap with popcorn bowls. They delve into the complexities of loving LGBTQ individuals while navigating faith and accountability. The discussion highlights the loneliness faced by single members of the community compared to married couples. A touching story of commitment through adversity is shared, underscoring devotion in tough times. Finally, they address self-denial and the challenges of attraction within Christianity, emphasizing the importance of holiness and community support.

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May 19, 2025 • 30min
Episode 319: Q&A with JP (from BeSo Live)
Listeners dive into a live Q&A exploring themes of redemption and healing from past struggles. Emphasis is placed on sharing personal stories to unlock healing and tackle complex feelings such as anger towards God. Discussions on self-awareness in relationships reveal the fine line between confidence and humility while addressing challenges like burnout. Honest conversations are framed as opportunities for growth, and navigating difficult parental relationships highlights the importance of boundaries and maintaining independence amid struggles.

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May 12, 2025 • 28min
Episode 318: Top Questions From Young Adults (from BeSo Live)
In a lively live recording, key questions from young adults are tackled with humor and insight. Listeners learn how to honor authority while navigating generational wisdom. The discussion dives into the complexities of friendships, emphasizing the importance of setting spiritual boundaries. Attention turns to the impact of porn addiction on relationships, highlighting healing through community support. Finally, vital conversations around Christian marriage are explored, focusing on attraction and the depth of intimacy beyond the physical.

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May 5, 2025 • 29min
Episode 317: Would Jesus Flip Tables Today? (from BeSo Live)
What would Jesus think about today's church practices? This lively discussion explores the commercialization of faith and whether modern worship might prompt Jesus to flip some tables. A heartfelt celebration of love also leads to deeper reflections on marriage and faith. Listeners are urged to examine their own motives in a consumer-driven environment, emphasizing the need for genuine connections and authentic discipleship. It’s a thought-provoking look at spirituality and community in the modern world.

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Apr 28, 2025 • 28min
Episode 316: Taking Care of Your Body (from BeSo Live)
How important is our physical health? And when can it become an obsession about appearance? We talk about all of that and more in this first recording from BeSo Live 2025!

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Apr 21, 2025 • 35min
Episode 315: The Fight for Marriage (feat. Gabe and Rebekah Lyons)
Since there is no perfect person, there is no perfect marriage. There are plenty of ways for division to arise in a marriage, but fighting for unity is possible. On this episode we talk to Gabe and Rebekah Lyons about their new book “The Fight for Us”. Pick it up here: https://a.co/d/fJhSeD5

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Apr 14, 2025 • 37min
Episode 314: Experiencing Jesus (feat. John Eldredge)
John Eldredge, an author and counselor renowned for his insights on Christian spirituality, joins to discuss how to truly experience Jesus. He emphasizes that a stale religion can transform into a vibrant relationship with the divine. Listeners learn about engaging with God beyond traditional quiet times, cultivating intimate communion, and understanding spiritual warfare. Eldredge shares practical tips for encountering Jesus daily and highlights the importance of rest and restoration amidst life's busyness.

Apr 7, 2025 • 33min
Episode 313: I Want their Approval!
Exploring the exhausting quest for approval, this discussion tackles the pitfalls of people-pleasing. With humor, they delve into the complexities of dating dynamics and the lure of playing hard to get. The conversation shifts to the balance between genuine service and the pressure to meet expectations, emphasizing the importance of meaningful relationships. Highlighting the contrast between divine and human approval, listeners are encouraged to prioritize faithfulness and embrace their inherent worth over societal validation.

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Mar 31, 2025 • 44min
Episode 312: What If I’m Not Attracted?
What do you do when you're interested in someone but not physically attracted? The hosts delve into the importance of attraction beyond the surface, examining the impact of societal norms on beauty and how personal insecurities affect relationships. They share humorous suburban anecdotes while discussing deeper qualities that foster attraction. Additionally, they tackle overcoming past unhealthy habits and the importance of character over looks, encouraging listeners to reflect on their emotional connections for healthier partnerships.