

157. See Through People's Masks
5 snips Dec 20, 2022
Dive into the fascinating world of nonverbal communication and discover how much of our true feelings remain masked by words. An inspiring story highlights the challenges of perceiving genuine emotions amidst spoken language. Unravel the nuances of body language and learn how to ask the right questions to uncover deeper truths. Explore the iceberg metaphor for emotions, prompting listeners to engage in more meaningful conversations that reveal hidden layers of human interaction.
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Erickson's Polio Recovery
- Milton Erickson, paralyzed by polio, overheard a doctor predict his death.
- He defied the prognosis and regained movement by observing nonverbal cues and exercising willpower.
Erickson's Psychiatry Approach
- Erickson studied psychiatry, focusing on nonverbal communication.
- He observed patients' walking styles, hand gestures, and other physical cues to understand their mental states.
Observing 'How Are You?'
- Observe people's responses to "How are you?"
- Look for discrepancies between their words, tone, and body language to understand their true feelings.