Kurt Gray, a professor at the University of North Carolina and author of "Outraged," dives into the psychology of moral outrage. He examines why topics like abortion and gun control ignite intense feelings, exploring our instinct to prevent harm. Gray discusses the role of storytelling in political dialogues, emphasizing how personal narratives can bridge divides. He offers insights on transforming heated debates into understanding through mutual respect, ultimately suggesting that recognizing our shared humanity can lead to more productive conversations.
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Road Rage Incident
Kurt Gray, as a teen, was driving recklessly when he almost hit a Mercedes-Benz.
The ensuing confrontation escalated with both men feeling like victims.
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Victimhood and Morality
Feeling like the victim in a situation fuels moral conviction and escalates arguments.
This explains disagreements on topics from abortion to road rage.
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Evolution of Morality
Humans evolved to be sensitive to threats, developing morality as a tool to maintain group cohesion.
This same morality can be used to justify harming out-groups.
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The book explores how the ideas 'what doesn’t kill you makes you weaker,' 'always trust your feelings,' and 'life is a battle between good people and evil people' have become embedded in American culture. These 'Great Untruths' contradict basic psychological principles and ancient wisdom, leading to a culture of safetyism that interferes with young people’s social, emotional, and intellectual development. The authors investigate various social trends, including fearful parenting, the decline of unsupervised play, and the impact of social media, as well as changes on college campuses and the broader context of political polarization in America.
Outraged
Why We Fight About Morality and Politics and How to Find Common Ground
Kurt Gray
In 'Outraged,' Kurt Gray presents groundbreaking research showing that liberals and conservatives share the same moral mind, with moral judgments stemming from feelings of threat or vulnerability to harm. Gray argues against the 'destruction narrative' and explains how early human instincts and modern social media contribute to moral outrage. He offers practical insights and tools for understanding and bridging the gaps between different moral worldviews, promoting more peaceful interactions in polarized times.
Politics, war, abortion, gun control — why do some topics make us so outraged?
One theory is that our preoccupation with preventing harm is to blame.
So today, we examine how humans developed morality, why we differ in what we consider right and wrong, and how that drives us to moral outrage.
And after all of that, we'll find out how to have better conversations with people you disagree with (even if you're feeling outraged).