Explore the delicate balance between transparency and oversharing at work. The hosts dive into a listener's tale about the pitfalls of spilling too much personal info, highlighting how it can erode trust. They discuss the influence of workplace culture on communication styles and the importance of pausing before sharing sensitive information. Strategies for effective dialogue and decision-making in teams are examined, emphasizing empowerment and clarity to enhance collaboration.
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question_answer ANECDOTE
Oversharing SOP Changes
A listener shared they skimmed an email about SOP changes and told a colleague the department was working on them.
They only later realized the information was confidential, causing a minor slip-up.
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Premature Course Cancellation Email
After a reorganization, the listener learned a course was canceled via a team chat.
They drafted an email to SMEs about the cancellation before confirming with the team lead, causing another mishap.
volunteer_activism ADVICE
Pause and Reflect
Pause and reflect before sharing any information, especially in professional settings.
Thoroughly read communications before acting on them to avoid misunderstandings and breaches of confidentiality.
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The fine line between transparency and TMI.
Let’s get into it: oversharing at work — we’ve all done it, and we’ve all cringed after. But here’s the tea: when we spill sensitive info without thinking, we’re not just breaking trust, we’re tanking our ability to Care Personally and Challenge Directly. In this episode, Kim, Jason, and Amy dig into a listener's story about sharing too much too soon and just how quickly oversharing can derail trust and create chaos. They unpack why these missteps happen, how different company cultures play into it, and what it really takes to find that sweet spot between transparency and discretion. If you’ve ever found yourself in the awkward aftermath of an overshare, this one’s for you. Let’s learn how to slow down, think it through, and keep our Radical Candor intact! Get all of the show notes at RadicalCandor.com/podcast.
(00:00:00) Introduction Amy, Kim and Jason introduce the episode around a listener’s question on oversharing at work. (00:01:26) Listener's Question on Oversharing A listener seeks advice on managing sensitive information more effectively. (00:03:58) Communication and Cultural Assumptions How organizational secrecy and biases affect information sharing. (00:06:30) Pause and Reflect The importance of pausing before sharing any potentially sensitive information. (00:08:42) Organizational Communication Structure Insights into structured vs. open communication styles and their impact. (00:12:09) Developing Effective Information Channels Strategies for ensuring efficient communication and reducing redundancy. (00:17:12) Soliciting Feedback and Building Trust Soliciting feedback from team leads after communication missteps. (00:22:16) Framework for Information Sensitivity The “Category” framework to clarify communication roles and boundaries. (00:24:56) Initiative and Respecting Boundaries The balance of taking initiative versus respecting organizational boundaries. (00:28:55) Communication and Problem Preference Being clear on workplace communication styles to tackle preferred challenges. (00:33:43) Personalizing Communication Styles Insights on managing communication impulsivity and biases. (00:38:47) Radical Candor Tips Checklist for managing sensitive information and improving communication. (00:41:05) Conclusion
Radical Candor: Communication at Work 
