Men under 23 prioritize ego boosting and female attention, lacking self-understanding.
Setting relationship standards early filters out unsuitable partners and shapes future behavior.
Authenticity in relationships leads to deeper connections and fulfillment, valuing individuality over societal norms.
Deep dives
Men's Readiness for Relationships in Their Early 20s
Men under 23 are generally not ready for stable relationships as they prioritize ego boosting and female attention due to lack of self-understanding. Exceptions exist, but it's rare before mid-twenties. The vast majority think with their 'penis first' and lack mature character development.
Setting Relationship Standards and Early Relationship Dynamics
Laying down relationship standards early helps filter out unsuitable partners and sets tone for future behavior. It ensures men are trained to be good mates by upholding principles and respecting boundaries. It creates a framework for healthy relationship behaviors and responses to various situations.
Understanding Gender Dynamics in Mate Selection
Women being sexually selective and choosing mates based on social status, while men often mate across and down hierarchies. Men engaging in pick-up artistry to navigate mating dynamics, while authenticity and personal development enhance attractiveness and lead to more fulfilling relationships. Women are generally more virtuous in relationships, and men and women cheat for different reasons: men seek variety, while women often feel unattended to.
The Power of Authenticity in Relationships
Being authentic and true to oneself in relationships, especially for men with depth and unique perspectives, can lead to a deeper connection with a partner who truly appreciates and loves them for who they are. By embracing one's individuality and not conforming to societal norms of acceptability, individuals can access partners who resonate with their depth and uniqueness, creating a more fulfilling and meaningful relationship. This authenticity allows for a genuine connection and a sense of pride in being loved for one's true self.
Navigating Depth in Relationships
Having a depth of character or a unique perspective may limit overall appeal, but it opens doors to connections with partners who appreciate that depth and individuality. This can lead to finding a partner who values authenticity over conforming to societal standards, ultimately resulting in a more genuine and long-lasting relationship. Embracing one's uniqueness as a virtue empowers individuals to attract partners who connect with their depth, fostering deeper and more meaningful relationships.
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